If you're wondering about how to plan an unforgettable honeymoon night then, you've come to the right place. Many couples have questions about what are some recommended romantic enhancement ideas, while others, that are inexperienced (virgins) in the boudoir, wonder about what are they supposed to do and what is going to happen during that night?
In this article, I am going to share some practical advice and ideas that will be useful to both groups of individuals and that will help to create the loving and romantic experience that you're hoping your first honeymoon night together will be about.
As you already know, communication is the building block for a peaceful and lasting relationship. Whether you're living together or not, you should both share and openly discuss your anticipated honeymoon expectations with one another. Everyone has their own preconceived views and opinions about what a wedding night should be like, and while, it is fun to let your partner take the lead in surprising you that night, it won't be much fun if they overlook something that would have been emotionally special to you or, if in the case of a virgin, you find out that your partner's sexual appetite isn't compatible with yours.
Your honeymoon night is meant to be an emotional and physically gratifying experience, both inside and outside of the bedroom. It serves the purpose of helping the newly wed couple to bond with one another as they gradually adjust to each other and enter the stage of married life. So it is essential that you set the groundwork for a fulfilling experience by talking to each other about your hopes, dreams and the activities for the honeymoon both in and out of bed, to ensure that there are no regrets later on.
This is especially true for virgins, you do have the right to refuse and to object to any sexual activity that you're not comfortable with, including advances from your spouse to be. If he or she really loves you, they will respect your wishes and will not force you into anything you aren't ready for or don't want to do.
Planning this special night for two, does require much attention to detail as your wedding, so before you go on your vacation, you need to go shopping for clothes, shoes, accessories and the most important element, your lingerie! The kind of lingerie you choose is really up to your preference and comfort level, however, during your first honeymoon night together, something that is sexy while still being sweet is most appropriate, you can definitely find these items in lingerie catalogues that sell bridal lingerie and be sure to pick-up extra pieces for subsequent nights!
Just like you're setting the mood for romance and love with your lingerie, you can also do the same with the environment of your hotel room. Roses have long been revered as symbols of love. Whether you have groups of rose bouquets and or scattered rose petals on the bed and floor, it will create a magical and wonderful alluring scenery for the two of you.
Just imagine for a moment, how breathtakingly beautiful it would be to enter your suit and see a huge heart made of rose petals on the bed. Perhaps your guy is naturally loving and romantic like this or maybe not, but it wouldn't hurt you any to casually make mention of it to him! Are you now seeing the importance of having open communication with him about your honeymoon night expectations?
As you may have imagined, after dancing a lot at your wedding reception, the two of you will be tired and a great way to unwind would be with a massage. There is nothing more uplifting than having a body massage to sooth away all tension and stress, after all, if you aren't feeling your best, neither one of you will be in the mood for romance.
The massage oil recipe I'm going to share with you is easy to make, its aroma is fragrant and sexy, I custom blended it myself for the purpose of this article, so see it as my honeymoon night gift to you!
Sensual Sandalwood and Rose Honeymoon Night Massage Oil
You will need:
2 ounces carrier oil (jojoba, grapeseed, sweet almond or apricot oil)
12 drops sandalwood essential oil
6 drops rose essential oil
a dark bottle to store it in
Directions: Pour your selected carrier oil into the bottle and add the essential oils. Cap and shake. Allow the mixture to set for 12 hours before use, this gives the essential oils time to blend their fragrance. Pour a little on your hand and massage away. Sandalwood is known to be appealing to men and rose comes natural to women, making this a winning combination. Just remember to remind your partner to give you a reciprocating massage, after all, this fun is meant for two!
Along with a fragrant massage oil, to sooth the body and to quiet the mind, who could ever overlook the sweet indulgence of chocolate? Chocolate, no matter what variety, is delicious and it is the perfect snack for your honeymoon night as it causes the brain to release serotonin, which is a happy hormone that makes you feel good. So it's a good idea to have some chocolate covered strawberries, Ghirardelli or Lindt chocolate on your nigh-table, to both eat and feed your sweetie while in bed, by the way, these brands taste exceptionally good!
It can never be underestimated how linens can play a romantic role in the boudoir. Satin sheets and lush pillows are very important for your comfort, play and eventual sleep. Although many hotels do provide these luxuries, on occasion you'll find those that do not, don't worry, you could always sprinkle some baby powder on the sheets to give it that "smooth glide" that is desired on a special night for two; just be careful not to overdo-it, sprinkle a little on the bed, then spread it all over the sheets until you have the desired results.
Lastly, if you're looking for a finishing touch for a romantic ambiance, there is nothing like turning the lights down low and having a combination of lit candles like, tea lights, votives and pillars of varying heights and shapes strategically displayed throughout the room. It is a well known fact that candlelight is flattering to everyone, which is why candles are so popular at weddings. The lighting of candles in combination with the above mentioned honeymoon night ideas would make for a remarkable evening and now, all that you would need to do is, listen to your heart and go with the flow of the night...
When two people are in love with each other, there really isn't a need for anything else. Your unconditional love and respect for one another is the most important element you have that will transcend into a night of love, romance and passion, these honeymoon night ideas mainly serve to give that extra oomph to your room and to your mood, but the main ingredient already lives in your hearts. Love. I hope you find these suggestions to be useful and insightful, and that it helps you to have the magical night you've always dreamed of!